Self evaluation may gives you bad result and may lead to psychology problems for example distress, low self esteem and lack of confidence. Self evaluation took ourselves to reflect our past behavior what it affecting the society. Mostly, society's feedback is negative. Thus, we selves say we done bad. We were offense even though the blame was not meant for us. We often thought their bad comment were related to us. Therefore, we must not giving evaluation of ourselves at first.
Lastly, evaluation take place. Accumulate what people said about you. Reflect what you have done before with their opinion. Does they said something useful? Giving you advice and list to-do and not-to-do also needed so if that some mistake you did may make you see it and would not to repeat it again. And if they said it nothing or giving positive comments, be glad and happy. They may support you as well.
As we could see, we could not knowing ourselves much better if there is no second or third party giving such opinion about you. You may ask them what they could see through you because sometimes we have some black spot that we could not see by ourselves. You also may could understand why you behave such an attitude. Lastly, let live in positive and happy lives.
Terence Anak Slyvester Empari.
